In the fast-paced world of banking, where numbers, precision, and structure prevail at every moment, there’s little room for imagination. Yet, for Himashi Samarasinghe, the story is different. Behind the calm, disciplined banker lies a gentle writer whose words flow with honesty, emotion, and quiet beauty.
A Life of Balance
By day, Himashi works in a private bank, carrying the weight of structure and responsibility. By night or in quiet stolen moments, she allows herself to breathe, to feel, and to write. “Banking sharpens my discipline,” she shares, “while writing softens my heart.“
Her two worlds may seem opposite, but they complement each other in unexpected ways. One demands precision; the other allows freedom. Together, they keep her balanced logic in one hand, imagination in the other.
The Spark of Writing & Creation
Writing isn’t new to Himashi; it’s in her roots. Inspired by her mother, herself a writer, Himashi discovered her own passion through books. Stories became her escape, her joy, and eventually, her voice.
“I don’t remember the exact words of my first piece,” she recalls, “but I remember the feeling. It wasn’t forced. It was me. That’s when I knew writing wasn’t just a pastime, it was a part of me.“
Photo Credits – ARTROOM Photography
Fashion as Expression
Himashi’s love for fashion modeling is more than aesthetics; it’s storytelling. Every pose, every outfit, every frame captures a moment, a feeling, or a narrative. Her modeling work complements her creative writing, giving her another medium to express emotion and identity. Through her visuals, she communicates confidence, elegance, and authenticity. Beyond the camera, she sees fashion as a language, a way to convey mood, personality, and even unspoken thoughts. Each photoshoot becomes a canvas, each ensemble a brushstroke, blending artistry with individuality. Whether it’s high-fashion editorials or everyday style, Himashi brings intention and emotion to every look, transforming fashion into a reflection of the self and a subtle dialogue with her audience.
Themes of the Heart
Himashi’s writing is simple, raw, and deeply emotional. She often writes about love, loneliness, and the subtle beauty of the natural world. She doesn’t chase complexity; she lets life itself inspire her.
When asked about her creative ritual, she smiles: “Silence, solitude, and sometimes nature, that’s when the words find me most naturally.”
Even with her demanding career, she doesn’t struggle with writer’s block. Instead, she turns to books. “If the words don’t come, I read. Sooner or later, the silence breaks into sentences.“
Her Online World – “Thougts_of_Shey”
Her passion evolved further with “Thoughts_ of_Shey”, her creator page, where she shares personal reflections, creative musings, and lifestyle inspiration. The page has become a space to connect, inspire, and leave a mark on those who crave honesty and style
“Every comment feels like someone whispering, I hear you,” she explains. And in those whispers, she finds the courage to write more. Her readers don’t just scroll past; they pause, reflect, and sometimes even carry her words into their own lives.
This is what makes Shey more than a page; it’s a community, quietly built on honesty.
The Power of Words
Her readers, followers, and fans on social media are her quiet motivation. Every message, comment, and reaction strengthens her belief in the power of words and visual storytelling.
“It’s not just confidence,” she says. “It’s the reminder that writing can connect hearts.”
Though she modestly calls writing her hobby, there is no mistaking the passion in her words. For Himashi, writing isn’t about perfection; it’s about honesty, connection, and leaving a part of herself in everything she creates.
A Voice of Empathy
If she could change one thing in society, it would be to bring back empathy: “To feel before judging, to pause before hurting, to understand before acting, that’s what I’d want people to remember.“
Himashi believes empathy is the bridge that connects people across differences. It’s not just about kindness; it’s about truly seeing and hearing others, about recognizing the struggles that often remain invisible. She often reflects on how small gestures, such as a listening ear, a thoughtful word, or a simple act of patience, can ripple into profound change.
In her writing and creative work, empathy is a guiding force. She crafts stories, visuals, and reflections that resonate because they come from a place of understanding and genuine human connection. Her readers and followers are not just an audience; they are participants in a shared experience of feeling and reflection.
“Empathy isn’t weakness,” she says. “It’s the strength to step into someone else’s world, even for a moment, and let that understanding shape how we live, create, and relate.”
For Himashi, cultivating empathy is not just a societal ideal; it’s a personal practice, one that informs her creativity, her career, and the way she navigates life itself.
A Multifaceted Identity
When asked how she would like to be remembered, Himashi doesn’t hesitate:
“As a writer, a creator, a model, and a banker, because all of these are me. Creativity and discipline coexist, and I embrace both fully.”
And that is what makes her story special. She is not a banker who occasionally writes or a model who happens to have a day job. She is all of these things, an elegant example of living life on one’s own terms.
Her Message to Society
For Himashi, writing is not just an art but a responsibility. Through her words, she hopes to remind people of something often forgotten in the rush of modern life: empathy.
“I would tell people to embrace empathy. To feel before they judge, to pause before they hurt, and to understand before they act. Words have the power to connect us, and I hope mine remind others of the importance of kindness,” she says with quiet conviction.
It’s a philosophy that beautifully mirrors both sides of her life, precision in banking and softness in writing, where structure and emotion find harmony.
Three Words that Define Her: Precise. Gentle. Calm.
How She Sees Herself: An observer of life collecting moments, feelings, and silence, then turning them into words.
How We See Her: A rising creative voice, writing with honesty that resonates beyond titles or professions.
Photo Credits – ARTROOM Photography
